Lao Tze says:
All the world talks about my Tao with such familiarity - What folly!
Tao is not something found at the marketplace or passed from father to son
It is not something gained by knowing or lost by forgetting
If Tao were like this it would have been forgotten long ago
I have three treasures I cherish and hold dear
The first is love
the second is moderation
the third is humility
With love one is fearless
With moderation one is abundant
with humility one can fill the highest position
Now, if one is fearless but has no love,
abundant but has no moderation,
rises up but has no humility,
surely he is doomed
Love vanquishes all attackers
it is impregnable in defense.
When Heaven wants to protect someone does it send and army?
No, it protects him with love.
*Jonathan Star translation
To call the name of something Great with familiarity is disrespectful. In the Bible, this is referred to as making "vain repetitions" or "taking the Lord's name in vain". Our fundamental problem here is not sharing what we've learned of the Way, or even dialoguing with others about meditation practice and the like. Our fundamental error is thinking that we "know" something.
To speak of the Tao as if we could know it is to belittle it. We can know the Tao in this present moment, but if we go to speak - to explain, to discourse - we have lost it. Wise men and women understand this and so can laugh at their attempts to encapsulate the vastness of Reality in words and thoughts. Others of us think we can truly
know that we can finally gain the right set of thoughts that will never betray us and will bring us happiness.
Truly, the Tao cannot be gained or lost. It is ever present in this moment. Even our attempts to capture it with our small minds are part of its activity. When we recognize this we can relax deeply into the knowledge that everything is all right just as it is. In that moment we become a "Tao Ren" a human of the Tao - a lover of Reality.
Practicing the Tao is a mystery. The human mind wants so much to gain stable ground, to rest assured that it can finally "come up with"
the Answer. The mystery is that it is only through relaxing our need for security, our need for "familiarity" with the Great One, our need for concepts and answers, can we actually find security, intimacy with Reality, and wisdom beyond conceptualization.
Lao Tze reminds us that if the Tao were dependant on our knowledge of it, it would have long ago been lost. It is not a secret technique that has been preserved for generations. It is nothing that you can attain. If it were so, it would have degenerated. The great Tao doesn't require our recognition - because even our ignorance is a part of it. The great secret though, is that by recognizing it we can dwell in inner and outer peace.
In the second part of this verse, the Master goes on to tell us of his cherished treasures - Love, Moderation, and Humility.
It is important for us to know that Love here means compassion. We are told that when we have compassion like this, we can be fearless. How is this so?
When we give our lives to love, the opening of the heart overwhelms all other feelings and vibrations. Just think of a mother and her child. Nearly any mother would do anything to protect and nurture her child. If the child was threatened she would give no thought for her own safety - only for that of the child. Many mothers experience a joy and peace that they've never known when they first gaze into the eyes of their child. Mystics of all times have come to feel this way for all beings. With this fire of compassion in your heart - all other concerns are burned away - fear has no room to exist.
Perhaps you have felt this for a family member or intimate partner. You love them so strongly that you would give anything for them. This is just a taste of what is possible for us as humans. Often our love wants something in return. Often we cannot sustain the Greatness of what we feel. If we practice giving our love, and then giving it more we will find that that spark we may have felt upon "falling in love" or caring for a sibling or grandparent blossoms into a full blown star. We become a beacon of light and we dwell in this bliss with no break.
With moderation, it is said that we are abundant. The word moderation here implies not exceeding the use of things, knowing the place for everything, not over-doing it. Essentially, when we practice this type of moderation we are letting go of greed. I think it is telling that this treasure is listed after Compassion because through compassion we recognize that what we have to do in this life is
give we are made of love and happiness, and things will only feel "right" when we learn to give them away. From this recognition we are established in the ability to live simply, because all we need is that which will sustain our ability to love others.
When we establish ourselves in this practice of moderation and simplicity an amazing thing happens: first, we begin to feel abundant - we feel fulfilled in our lives as if all our needs are met; then, our outer reality begins to change into a more and more perfect expression of that abundance which we feel. When we align with Love, we are aligned with all of Life. On a subtle level, none of our efforts go unnoticed. Our practice of moderation means that we will always have everything we need. We begin to become a part of nature again. The trees have all they need, so do the flowers. Humans begin to feel we need more and more and thus eventually deprive ourselves and others.
Abundance will mean different things to different people - it is all based upon what one needs to offer this world. For one person as small meditation hut in the mountains may enable them to serve, for another it might require a giant office building in New York. You can tell if you are living beyond your spiritual means because if you are then all your possessions will either begin to feel like burdens, or will be taken for granted. On the other hand, if you are living a life that is an expression of your Love and Compassion, everything in your life will reflect to you a feeling of gratitude.
The third treasure is Humility. This word also means "not being to daring" or "non-presumptuous". When we are not too daring, we can assume the highest position. This means that we rememer our role and our station. It actually takes us back to the first part of this chapter - reminding us not to get to "familiar" with the Dao. The perspective of the mystic is always one of receptivity. We may be shining the light of Compassion into all the world, but at the center of it all is the emptiness of our rapt wonder at the mystery of all Life.
Coming from this perspective of emptiness, we are in a position to responsibly hold high positions where we can care for others and the energy of the universe will place us in them. These may not always look like "high positions" to the eyes of others in the world (though they may as well), motherhood is a position of great responsibility, husband is a role which allows one to truly do good in another's life. The more humble we are, the more we begin to recognize what an honor it is to be where we are. We recognize the privelege we have been given in this moment and we vow to use it responsibly.
Lao Tze goes on to tell us that if we neglect these treasures, we are most surely doomed.
If we are fearless without love, we are likely to act in ways that harm ourselves or others.
If we are abundant but without moderation, we are likely to lack appreciation for what we have.
If we rise up without humility, we will lake the presence and responsibility that each moment deserves.
In the Buddhist tradition it is explained that all the things that come to us in this life are a result of the actions we have taken which effect others. It is said that one can even become a godlike being which lives for millions of years through accumulating good karma. It is also said, though that the later years of a god are very painful and filled with fear. Often, as a godlike being, one has so much power that one can forget compassion, moderation, and humility. Forgetting these essentials, one can mindlessly engage in actions which bring harm to others - and the more powerful one is, the more potential there is for harm (or good). Causing all of this harm brings it's inevitable karmic result and, according to tradition, a god's last few thousands of years are so terrible because only then do they realize that their rebirth will be of a nature to repay all the harm they have done.
We can see this in the lives of contemporary rock stars, business executives, perhaps even politicians. Being blinded by power or fame, individuals can forget where true happiness comes from - from expressing ones nature as Love and Compassion. As the saying goes "power corrupts".
When, on the other hand, one begins from a standpoint of Love, Moderation, and Humility, one has the means by which to handle any power or fame responsibly - because she knows that it has only been given to enable her to serve beings in ever greater ways. When we practice in this way the positive energy we generate (merit) can grow exponentially - allowing our service to become ever greater, and our happiness to increase at the same rate.
The last verse in this chapter reinforces the View that Love is of the utmost importance. We are told that Compassion is the ultimate defense and protection. This passage helps to put our minds at rest. Contemplating becoming a more loving, open-hearted person can seem like a frightening prospect. Many of us have learned to believe that it is only by becoming stronger or more cunning than others that we can survive and gain happiness. By studying the Dao, though, we begin to learn that our happiness arises as a natural by-product of living in harmony with who we really are. And who we really are is Love itself. Living as who we really are we become one with the Tao and there is no possibility of being in the wrong place. The intentions we put forth begin to become ever clearer expressions of our Compassion, and anything which does not match that vibration is either repelled or transformed instantly.
When Heaven wishes to protect someone it does not send an army. When we are not living the truth, we will feel very insecure. We may think we need to constantly seek out more knowledge, more means of defending ourselves. This is because the identity we've created is an illusion and is quite small. On some level we know that it is an illusion and could crumble at any moment (and eventually will die) - this makes us feel scared. When we are living the truth of our being, we recognize that what we really are is deathless, we begin to feel invulnerable. We know that no matter what happens to us, we are living the Tao in this moment as Love. Established in this state, all the world comes to us in peace and is transformed by our presence.